Today’s leaders understand that retaining top talent is crucial to organizational success. When high performers feel empowered, engaged, and enthusiastic about their company and its culture, they are more likely to stay.

Creating and maintaining a culture that fosters this mindset requires commitment and effort from every leader. To help leaders at all levels communicate the message that their employees are trusted, valued, and needed, we offer three essential conversations that can make a significant impact:

The One-on-One Conversation

One-on-ones are an opportunity for managers and direct reports to connect as individuals, building a relationship beyond work tasks. These regular conversations, held at least once every two weeks, should last between 20 to 30 minutes. At our company, we’ve put a unique twist on one-on-ones: while the manager schedules the meeting, the direct report sets the agenda. This allows team members to bring up what matters most to them in a supportive, judgment-free setting.

Traditionally, some leaders have been wary of becoming too close to their staff, fearing it would cloud their judgment. However, our research shows that when employees feel known and valued by their manager, the idea of leaving the organization doesn’t come up as often. One-on-ones foster trust and camaraderie, leading to stronger engagement, a sense of ownership, and lasting relationships.

The Stay Conversation

The stay conversation may sound like something that happens after an employee has given notice, but by then, it’s often too late. These conversations should take place when someone begins a new role and continue every couple of years to keep engagement high. These talks benefit both parties: employees feel seen and heard, while leaders gain insights into the factors that motivate individuals to stay with the company, allowing them to reinforce those elements.

When initiating a stay conversation, frame it as an opportunity for employees to share what they value about their job and what would help them perform their best. You might ask, “What factors would enable you to do the best work of your life?” or inquire about any challenges they’ve faced and how those were resolved. It's also helpful to ask about their long-term goals: “Where do you see yourself in five years?”

Many employees leave because no one asked them to stay. Simply taking the time to have a stay conversation may be all it takes to boost their commitment to the organization. For some, this may be the first time they’ve had such a conversation in their career.

The Coaching Conversation

Leaders who incorporate coaching into their management style create an environment of trust and engagement. Regular coaching conversations empower team members, increase their sense of ownership, and improve their desire to remain with the company. Fortunately, the essential communication skills needed for effective coaching come naturally to most leaders.

• Ask questions that promote open communication: Avoid yes-or-no questions. Instead, ask open-ended questions like, “Can you tell me more about that?” or “What do you want to achieve?” Clarifying questions, such as “When did this happen?” or “How did you feel?” ensure understanding, while prompting questions like “What would you like to see happen?” encourage deeper reflection.
  
  

• Listen with the intent to be influenced: Employees today want managers who genuinely care about their perspectives. Be open to their ideas, and resist the urge to interrupt. Pay attention to nonverbal cues, such as tone of voice, and confirm your understanding by restating or summarizing the conversation.
  
  

• Share relevant information: Sharing information is crucial for empowering your team. When appropriate, provide insights or context that will help employees make informed decisions. If you hold back information, people may create their own, often more negative, version of the truth. Always ask yourself, “Will sharing this help them succeed?”
  
  

• Express confidence to empower and engage: End coaching conversations by reinforcing your confidence in the person. Express your appreciation and let them know you have their back. When leaders show confidence in their team, it builds trust and fosters a greater sense of belonging and empowerment.
  
  

When leaders foster an environment where employees feel seen, heard, included, and valued, they greatly increase the chances that their best performers will stay with the organization for the long haul.

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